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Something is in my head

Something got into my head two days ago. I can’t get it out of my head. What’s more I don’t think I want it out of my head.

I have not been able to get the following out of my head since I first read this a few days ago in an article by a Sister of Charity of Halifax, Nuala Kenny in the English-language edition of La CroixShe tells the story an 8-year-old Yoda-like wisdom figure she overheard in her pediatric clinic.

Tammy, an eight-year-old with chronic renal failure and a second failing transplant, comforted a newly admitted five-year- old who was being investigated for renal failure.

She had her arm around the crying girl saying, “Now, don’t you worry. I have been through all this and will help you through it.”

I ask you, at your own risk, to read it again letting the words “Now, don’t you worry. I have been through all this and will help you through it.”

I don’t think I want it out of my head

Each time I hear these words I hear them with a different nuance.

  • I have never heard such a profoundly simple explanation of why the Word of God took flesh and fully entered into our human condition. Emmanuel, God with us, the Word made flesh says, “Don’t worry, I have been through all this and will help you get through it.”
  • I have often heard the phrase “From the Crib to the Cross” summing up the continuum from the Incarnation through the death and resurrection of Jesus.  Jesus says, “Don’t worry, I have been through all this and will help you get through it.”
  • I see new depth in how God so loves us that He sends his Son Jesus to take on our fragility, vulnerability and dependence in becoming embodied and enfleshed. Jesus “emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, being born in human likeness” (Philippians 2, 6). The “suffering servant” says, “Don’t worry, I have been through all this and will help you get through it.”

Jesus and children

Jesus often demonstrated a special care for and a profoundly counter-cultural approach to children. But now when I read:

  • I tell you solemnly, unless you change and become like little children you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18, 1-6)
  • I bless you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for hiding these things from the learned and clever and revealing them to mere children (Matthew 11, 25)
  • Whoever does not receive the Kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it (Mark 10, 15

… I will hear an eight-year old Tammy say “Don’t worry, I have been through all this and will help you get through it.”

I am wondering if I am the only one unable, and unwilling, to get Tammy’s words out of my head… and whether you will find new and perhaps visceral understanding of scripture passages read so often.

PS The above article has an excellent 5 sentence summary of an essay written by Karl Rahner almost exactly 50 years ago Ideas for a Theology of Childhood.

Nuala Kenny is a Sister of Charity in Halifax, Nova Scotia and a pediatrician. An officer of the Order of Canada since 1999, she has published several books, including  Healing the Church  (Novalis, 2012) and Rediscovering the Art of Dying (2017). She has co-author of Still Unhealed: Treating the Pathology in the Clergy Sexual Abuse Crisis (Novalis and Twenty-Third Publications, 2019).

Click below for and audio version of the Vincentian Mindwalk.

The Wisdom of an Eight-year-old